Help me understand and guide me to where I’m supposed to be.

I need direction to know if what I am feeling is real.  Do I act on these feelings or wait?  I’ve never had this strong of feelings before.  I’ve been patiently waiting, and not sure what to do with these feelings.  I know there is alot on the line, I just don’t want to wait and lose it all.  I also don’t want to look like a fool either.  I need an obvious sign as to move forward, or to let it all go and start my own journey again.  I have never loved like this before.  I don’t think he is emotionally ready yet.  I pray he finds happiness with me or without me as he deserves it.